Today, there was a bit of a hissy fit in my recent post about vegan cross-contamination issues. At first I got a little offended and was rude, but when I toned it back and tried to extend an olive branch, I was attacked for not even being a vegan because I wasn’t out “defending my rights” by attacking other people. This, I think, is really sad, and I wanted to explain a few things.
I used to be very strict about eating out and things, but after living in Japan for a period, where not only did people not understand what veganism was, but they thought I was crazy. The best I could do was present myself as being like a strict Buddhist monk, who would only eat things like “shoujinryouri,” which is vegan cuisine for the monks that still don’t eat animal products (most Buddhist monks in Japan abandoned this tradition a long time ago, though some sects still abstain from meat).
It was really hard to eat anywhere. It was hard to eat out, to shop, to anything. This lead to me just eating not enough food, basically. I was often tired and felt a little off-kilter. If I had to go through it again, which I will soon, I wouldn’t give up veganism, but I will have to learn to be a little smarter and less stressed out about it.
In fact, I hope to return to Japan in the spring and summer to do linguistic research. Because a lot of that research will have an anthropological focus, it means I will be doing lots of eating out with pushy Japanese people. And there, part of doing research is fitting in and not challenging the social paradigm of the people you’re eating with. This means that to be a vegan, I will have to be very careful and will have a lot of pressure on me to change, which worries me.
As such, I don’t think it’s kind for anyone to be pushy or rude, whatever the cause is. I encourage people to try veganism, but I don’t attack them or bully them. Who are you going to win over that way? Probably less people than a kind, caring individual would.
So my thought: be nice to others. If you want people to try veganism, cook them something tasty and tell them why you chose it. Don’t shove pamplets of dead animals in their face and then yell “murderers” at them. You have to consider that most people don’t consider what’s wrong with their actions, so they might be will to change. But those people know that they don’t like being talked down to or yelled at, and that’s going to turn them off to your message.
Happy eating!
I work at a pizza place that sounds a lot like Ramunto’s…and “cross-contamination” happens all the time. Your hand goes straight from the ham to the pineapple or sausage to the black olives. Or cheese accidentally get dropped in the sauce…actually, the cheese gets everywhere.
Just out of curiosity…is this a concern for you, that animal products are likely mixed in to your vegan pizza even if only in minimal amounts?