I read “Skinny Bitch”, and it really opened my eyes as to what I was putting into my body (also some vegan things like coffee, chips, liquor, sugar, etc.).
People, especially the American public, is pretty far from altruistic about their actions, you really have to start your pitch with “what is this going to do for me” and add in all the benefits. Maybe it’s not the way it should be, but it’s the way it is. Therefore, the more people you can get to relate this in any way, the more overall good you do. I would rather have 100 vegans that think like this, that one uncompromising, alienating, ’super vegan’ (that’s mine btw, I just coined it). Why? Because that’s 100x less meat, 100x less footprint, and 100x better PR.
Not everyone lives in California, if I went into a restaurant in Texas and threw a fit over cross contamination when a reasonable effort was made, I would be laughed at and would come across as a narrow-minded person. Instead, someone might ask me how I lost 25 pounds in the last 6 months and I can give them my book and not look like an elitist or whatever people in Texas like to call us.
Get it? Change minds by example, and be the best example you can be.
]]>If somebody wants to classify me as “not vegan” because I don’t believe animals have greater rights than humans, so be it.
Vegans could be teaching others about the health benefits of their diet, and share their ethical and environmental concerns without being belligerent.
I think it’s important to remember we all have freedom of choice, whether we’re vegans or meat eaters. Who cares what’s on somebody else’s plate?
]]>Thanks so much for the kind comment. I was just thinking about this today, in fact. The more normal we are, the more normal veganism becomes, after all.
]]>Thanks for the kind comment and I’m glad you like the site,
I also wanted to echo Bella’s sentiments about how we portray our lifestyle. If we really want to do the most good for animals it behooves us to show that veganism is perfectly normal and, most importantly, easily achievable. If people think they have to eat all kinds of weird foods and carefully scrutinize how their food is prepared whenever they eat out they are much less likely to see it as something they can do.
When it comes to trying to sway people towards vegetarianism or veganism I find that it is much more effective to lead by example than to preach. Being adversarial is bound to turn people off, but I have found that when people see that what I do is rooted in a desire to do the right thing, that there is nothing strange about it, that it has many benefits to oneself and the world, they become more open to it. I think that trying to explain our viewpoint as objectively as possible has the most potential to do good.
P.S. – Ben, I followed you link from Ecomodder, this is a great site!
]]>Thanks for the poignant comment. It’s definitely a tricky issue sometimes. For example, I have leather things that I’ve had for years but I can’t seem to bring myself to wear them unless I’m like mowing the lawn and no one will see, since I don’t want people to think I’m endorsing leather-wearing, but then anyone who knows me enough to notice would probably know that’s not the case…
Benjamin
]]>I’m glad to know that I wouldn’t be the only one to think this, and I’m glad to know that vegan-ism (is that a word?) is not just some silly cause to get the world to feel the same way I do. I don’t have the time or the willpower to change the world of it’s ways, just my own.
Keep up the good work ^_^
]]>Your post made me think a little bit. This is one of the reasons why I have a hard time eating out, and I think I am caught somewhere in between you and “those damn vegans.”
I’m working on trying to relax a little, though. Going on a crusade might have its place at times, but the only way we are going to get people to truly consider veganism is to portray this lifestyle as perfectly normal and most of all, livable. Getting worked up over one micro-sized piece of cheese is not going to help you, your cause, or the animals.
]]>Thanks for the support. And just for the record, I don’t hate you for eating cheese, :p
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Thanks for the comment. Allergies are definitely an issue for some of my friends, so I can sympathize a bit. Unfortunately, since their predicament is a matter of life and death they don’t really have a choice. I see the importance of veganism in making certain choices and asserting the reasons for those, and not expecting them all to be carried out perfectly, perhaps. But I don’t see that affecting the cause or practice substantially.
]]>You’re adversarial attitude is the reason why I don’t associate with many vegans, and why I don’t think there is such a thing as a “vegan cause.” I don’t think restaurant owners want to trample all over our rights. In fact, I don’t think we have any right to go into anyone’s business and demand they change their offerings for us. If I ran a vegan restaurant and someone wanted something prepared some way I didn’t know how, I would tell them I’m sorry, and that wouldn’t be trampling on their rights.
“Life altering decision” my ass. You change what you eat and what you wear. I don’t feel any different or act any different. It’s not a religion. But then I guess you the type that wants to treat it like such and go on a crusade against the heathens.
If that’s the case, I’d gladly be against your approach. I don’t agree with it, I think it’s silly. You’re not my “own kind,” so don’t try to create artificial groups to put me in; one shared practice does not make either of us the other’s kind.
However, I’d probably be your friend in real life, as I have many friends who are in PeTA and do canvassing in real life, so don’t be so belligerent. If you want to argue your point, feel free, but avoiding the issues and calling me “kid” or some sort of back-stabber isn’t really holding a conversation. Feel free to do that, but at least include some content too.